Son in the Shadows: "Navigating Life as the Black Sheep of Narcissistic Parents"

It is the 4^th of July. This date signifies many things to Americans relating to freedom and liberty. It is a special day for them. Though not a universal holiday or occasion, those same principles can still be applied to other areas.

This is especially for you men out there. You have recovered from being a scapegoat. You are still in the process of recovering. When you cut off your toxic family, it may seem like you’re doing the wrong thing. It might feel harmful. But, it is actually healthy and an act of self-preservation. You’re giving yourself the freedom of autonomy and being independent in who you are. You should celebrate that regularly and have pride in it, just like Americans who are proud of their country.

The thing is, not everyone will like this, and you know what, that is absolutely okay. This is because you’re a sovereign man. By taking these steps, you not only become a free man. You also become a brave one at that. So, if this is shamed or misunderstood, understand that it often will be. Realize you’re not doing this for anything but for yourself. This also extends to the independence of your choices, your thoughts, and your opinions. Even if someone thinks it sounds wrong. It doesn’t matter. You do not need to yield to the majority.

Happy independence day to any American readers. The same goes to all the guys out there finding their own path to liberation.