Son in the Shadows: "Navigating Life as the Black Sheep of Narcissistic Parents"

When you escape from a narcissistic dysfunctional family as a scapegoat, it is common knowledge that you don’t leave unscathed. They seek to tell people you mutually know negative things about you. This includes friends, family, or other people in your circle. A lot of these things are really far-fetched and over-exaggerated. A saying goes: “If they can’t control you, they will aim to control people’s perceptions of you.”

It may seem shocking and disappointing that a lot of these people have changed towards you. It is very easy to blame the narcissists in this scenario. You still could, but it would be giving them way too much power. In this situation, you sometimes covertly thank them as they have exposed who is people actually are. Those people in your life never directly mentioned what was said about you. They also didn’t question things more. This speaks huge volumes! This also indicates that those relationships with those people in your life were fragmented. They were not strong to begin with. It shows that these people are stupid and gullible. They believe someone who possesses the character traits of the narcissists. This highlights their poor judgment in character.

Not only that, but these people are cowards and weak. Narcissists don’t really tear down things that are solid and tough. They break down things that are already crumbly and weak. This describes those people in your life who believed the smear campaign. All you have to do is rise above it.